We understand that your data and details need to always remain secure and for this reason we adhere to strict GDPR guidelines. Please take the time to read through our guidelines to ensure you have the right engagement at all levels of matching.

Getting started

We allow you to remain anonymous to other users until you feel ready to provide contact information to other users. We advise never to include your personal contact information in your profile, especially telephone numbers, email, home address or your last name. Through our face-to-face meeting you will only provide your contact information to another user when your instincts tell you this is someone you can trust. Set up an email account just to view profile and start your matching experience. Keep your passwords confidential and make sure they are not easy to guess by other users. Choose a unique password for you use nowhere else whilst creating a profile.

The process

We will ensure that you ask the right questions when communicating during your level 1 and level 2 meetings and are alerted for inconsistencies. If you are suspicious of a person during your face-to-face meetings please drop us a mail after the meeting on info@pairedmatch.com and we will make sure to contact you to understand your concerns. We can not validate the identity of all our members or the information that they submit on their profiles initially but at level 3 meeting onwards we can conduct checks on your behalf to give you more security.

Level 1 & 2 Meetings

Our coordinators will work hard to ensure you find out as much as possible about the person before taking any steps further to share details. We believe the sunnah provides that security by meeting face to face and having all the right parties there before communicating extensively. Do not disclose your phone number or personal contact information during the call although our co-ordinators will ensure that during the call. Try to ask as many questions during your Level 1 and Level 2 meetings. We are happy for you to conduct multiple level 1 and 2 meetings to 'paint a picture' of your desired match and understand more about that person. Ensure you bring the right people to each face-to-face call to assist you in your decisions at all levels although we will support you too during these processes. If you are a female bring your wali (guardian) at all times during the face-to-face meetings. At level 3 and above our team are happy to also work with you in other settings subject to travel and locations.

During Level 2 and 3 meetings

Take your time to get to know your preferred match. Proceed one step at a time and at your own pace. If a match is in a foreign country be aware of cultural differences and take the time to learn the culture and understand the other persons expectations about the relationship. Our coordinators will work hard at level 2 to make you as comfortable as possible so that you feel it is secure to begin sharing your personal details. Spending the right time during level 2 meetings to get to know the preferred match before things get serious at level 3 will avoid costly mistakes. At Level 3 we will take it up a notch and encourage you to spend time as a family together to get to know your preferred match and understand if you are near making a final decision. At this stage your personal details will be shared, and Level 3 meetings will be to discuss next steps on how you would like to meet in person and discuss items such as profile validity checks, dowry and other personal preferences. We treat marriage as a serious matter and will ensure that you our coordinators help you make the right decision to proceed to choosing your preferred spouse in the sunnah manner. We are happy to ask the difficult questions on your behalf and this is the uniqueness that we offer compared to any other service provider.

Level 3 and beyond

Before you get engaged, take the your time from level 3 meetings to consider what could go wrong and know your rights. Getting married is one of the most important decisions in your life and not something that should be rushed. Make sure that you know as much as possible about your partner before getting engaged. Get to know your partner's friends and family: in some countries when you marry someone you also "marry" their family and relatives. If you are getting engaged to someone from another country then you should take additional steps to familiarize yourself with your rights regarding domestic violence, abuse and divorce in your partner's country. For this reason we are happy to support you beyond level 3 meetings subject to our availability and cost implications. We want to be there with you at all levels so that you can have a supporting party to help you make the right choices. Feel free to speak to our coordinators or team and we will happily engage to help you conduct personal consultancies on your preferred match. We will ensure these are all kept in record via a type of preferred match level. We are also happy to provide minutes of the meeting if you need that to be requirement for level 3 and beyond.