The Process

Our coordinators help you learn about your potential match before sharing any personal contact details. Face-to-face with coordinator support on every call.

• Multiple Level 1 and 2 meetings are encouraged before progressing
• Female members should bring their wali (guardian) to all face-to-face calls
• Coordinators help ensure appropriate questions are asked
• We alert users to any inconsistencies identified during meetings
• Contact info@pairedm.co.uk if you have concerns about a member after a meeting

Take your time getting acquainted and proceed at a pace that feels right. For international matches, understanding cultural differences is especially important.

• Focus on getting to know your potential match gradually
• Consider cultural differences, especially for international matches
• Level 3 involves family introductions
• Personal details are shared at Level 3 — not before
• Our team continues to provide guidance and support

Before engagement, take the time to consider all aspects carefully. Understand your rights and be fully informed before making any commitments.

• Identity validation occurs from Level 3 meetings onward
• Research legal protections in your partner's country for international matches
• Understand your rights regarding domestic matters
• Our ongoing support continues beyond Level 3
• We can help with wedding planning and Nikah arrangements